Are you feeling unsettled about something in your life? A relationship that's not working the way you'd hoped? A business that's not taking off like you expected? A job that's not as rewarding as you thought? Are you disappointed because you've been asking questions and inviting change, but it doesn't seem to be working? Have you decided that you got it wrong? What if there was nothing wrong with your questions and nothing wrong with what's showing up? What if it was just different to what you expected? If you'd like help to see this, ask “What's right about this discomfort?” What if discomfort was you sensing change? Change might not be fast enough for you, and it might not show up like you expected at first...or ever. But if you jump to a conclusion that discomfort is bad and try to stop it, you may just be stopping the process of change you started.
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Do you consider you're addicted to something? Has someone told you you are? What is that for you? Food, drugs, alcohol, sex, work, helping people, the wrongness of you, or something else? What does addiction mean to you? That's you're powerless to overcome it without submitting to a higher authority? That you will never overcome it and it will always control you? That it's a physical condition, an allergy and the only solution is a long, slow process and complete abstinence? That you are bad, wrong or a failure for having it What if addiction wasn't what you thought it was? If you've tried everything and would like to find out what else is possible, start by asking yourself “What if addiction wasn't a disease?” What else is possible? That depends on you. How much change would you like? Visit The Bradford System of Right Recovery www.thebradfordsystemofrightrecovery.com for more information about how to choose for you.
How often do you say “because” every day? For example, I can't come tonight because (I have to work late); I have to work late because (I have to finish this project); I need to do this because (it's a job and better than nothing); I'd love to do what I'd really like in life but I can't because (I don't have the money, or enter your own reason here). Are the things you say after “because” real? Or are they simply all your reasons and justifications for not doing something? When you really want something, do you find a way to create it, whatever it takes? If you'd like to create more of what you'd really like in your life, notice every time you say “because” and ask “What's possible that I haven't considered?” You're not wrong when you say because. In fact, you're absolutely right. And if you'd like something more than you currently have, questions will open your eyes and show you what else is possible. Then you can create it, if you choose.
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